Many women wonder how to flirt with men without looking as if they’re want to get “picked up.” With modern-day beliefs and values this can be hard.
The attitude of some men, who are only looking for a sex partner, can be another problem.
These men are the ones that make flirting difficult because they see any sign of friendliness as an invitation. But don’t be discouraged, there are many men who you can flirt with safely and not seem as if you want a one night stand.
As important as how you flirt is where you flirt.
The places you flirt influence how men perceive your intentions. Flirting with someone when you’re on line at the supermarket or post office, he’ll know you’re not going to hop into bed with him. If you meet an attractive man during your daily errands, you should feel safe trying to flirt with him. He would assume you’re trying to be friendly.When you know how to flirt with men in these places, it allows you to safely meet new men and become comfortable talking to men you don’t know.
But, his view of you can change drastically if you’re in a nightclub or a bar. These are “pick up spots” as far as most men are concerned. This is where they hook up with women. So if you’re flirting with men at these places, you can expect the flirting to get pretty intense, since these men hope you’re looking for more than friendliness. No matter it you try to be subtle you, most of the men you meet at a bar or nightclub will see any flirting as a sign that they should try to make it more than you intended. Knowing how to flirt and how not to flirt in these situations will help you learn how to adapt and change your flirting style as needed.
Obviously, it’s best to start by flirting subtly with people during your daily activities.
Start with a smile. Give a small smile while glancing up at a man, with fixing your eyes on his. This is a sign that you think he’s interesting, that you want to flirt with him. You learn flirting by practicing and honing your flirting skills, after a while these things become second nature. As you learn how to flirt you want to appear friendly, this is not only the correct way to flirt, it also won’t make you look easy.
A great smile and good sense of humor are the easiest way to look friendly. This is a wonderful combination to practice. Humor is a n excellent way to keep things light, flirting should not be serious. As you learn how to flirt remember to use humor and a smile at every opportunity.
How do you know you’ve mastered the art of flirting, simple, when a man doesn’t return your interest and it doesn’t bother you, then you’ve mastered how to flirt with men.
This is when you’re not trying to flirt, your actions are not a natural part of how you communicate. Men will see that you’re not trying to hit on them, they will intuitively know that this is part of who you are. You know how to flirt and still remain in control, without looking easy.